WHY SHOULD PARENTS SPEND TIME WITH THEIR CHILDREN
Why do parents need to spend time with their children?
Parents and their children need to spend time together in order to enhance family relationship and close family ties. This is the most compelling reason on why should parents spend time with their children. Also, parents are the most immediate individuals to whom the children learn the essential values and perspectives towards growing and life as a whole.
The contemporary family life can be deemed to be very much different some decades ago. During those times, traditional family practices are seen to be unmistakable in every aspect of development – from personality to values as well as overall human development. Today, there are numerous external factors that affect every child such as the environment, other people, media and technology, educational and social institutions, and the likes. With the influences of these external factors and the conditions that go hand in hand with them, there is a strong need for parents to spend time with their children. The time in which parents and children spend together serves as the strongest foundation for holistic human development.
Parents know best. Cliché as it may seem but it remains true over the years. As parents spend time with their children, the intimate bond of familial relation intensifies. For this very reason, parents and children when gathered together in a specified moment are able to talk about things, topics, and other issues or concerns. The communication of the parents and the children is effectively takes place when they have time for each other. For time is very important element in building human relationship, families can use this as the main ingredient in establishing and maintaining connection between each other.
Time is also an indicator in which the parents can identify the needs of their children. By spending time with them, the parents are able to ask their children what they need or the children are able to tell their parent things that bother them. In some special cases, spending time with children allows parents to discover things or attributes that are inherent to their children which are not known to them. Though sometimes, time is no longer enough for contemporary families, the greatest challenge is to see to it that even in the most difficult circumstance, the parents are able to find significant amount of time to spend for their children. A simple ‘how are you?’ or pat on the back, and daily greetings will indicate a feeling of affection to one another.
All in all, parents indeed need time to spend with their children because it is a vital moment in nourishing human relationship; it enhances family bonding and closer ties; it serves as a foundation for values, personality, holistic human development; and most importantly, it is a necessity to keep family together. As various factors and challenges are affecting the family as the most basic institution in the society, the availability of time to spend together seems to be the most imperative reason to keep the family united and bonded. With sufficient and quality time spent together, both parents and children are not just mere members of the family but it goes deeper to the real essence of the word. With the presence of time, human virtues like love, care, trust, appreciation, and others are cultivated. Thus, these create a better foundation for an ideal family.
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