The Advantages and Disadvantages of Belonging to a Nuclear Family
THE ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF NUCLEAR FAMILY
The Nuclear or biological family is the smallest unit of society that we belong. They consist of father, mother and children who loved and lived together to form a home. All over the world the nuclear family has been given value and importance that makes a family stand up from problem and opportunities that may come. It is in the family that we can adopt our personality, sense of pride, character formation, identity and social upbringing. Most of the time family relation formation is dependent in our culture. In Asian countries who have a very close family ties to the highest extent that bonds until up to the point that parents would support their children after their marriage, while in American and European culture most likely they are dependent when reach a certain age. Although family bonding is also being exercise but basically they separate upon maturity of children.
Our family is the one who taught us to learn to walk when we are children and they are the one to help us stand up when we are down. No matter how much our situation they will always be there to support every family members, they are the ones who gave us our physical needs during our childhood and we can depend on them even when we grow old inherently we help them if they ask. They are also the one to encourage us to reach our dreams and they will be there to reach us if we fall, they are the sources of our strength and understanding. Sometimes we live our life and inspiration to dedicate them our achievements but we are ready to accept everyone even if they fail. No amount of hardship is ever enduring if there is a foundation of love and respect that unites the family even more. A family is not just a house that is constructed by marbles and steel but a home that consists of loving and nurturing mother, respectable father and obedient children that strengthens the family relationship. There will come a time that children are going to build the family of their own and children will soon be adults, whatever lessons they have learned from their nuclear family they will soon exercise it in the family of their own. We are the reflection of our nuclear family, a person who has a family that sticks together through thick and thin will basically succeed in life and they will always return in a place that they called “HOME”. A person who has found a home may be blessed with a stable personality while the person who grows without their own family may find it hard to love and be loved simply because they have not found love if they grow lonely but this doesn’t mean they cannot learn to love, it comes naturally inside the family. The nuclear family can express the freedom to live the best life more than the material possession but freedom to choose what is right.
There are times that our Nuclear family has become the one who can destroy our personality for there are parents who lived up to the highest expectation that degrade and belittle their children who have not done well especially in school if they lack the grades expected. Also the children’s competition and jealousy about their parents love. If we belong to a very irresponsible parents chances are we are poor that we have not given the opportunity to get the basic needs to live, they may experience fighting and beating of parents and children. In some countries including European and African nations who have the most number of family struggles and crimes, there are numerous counts of family and domestic violence especially among children who suffered most from radical and sadistic parents.
There are also forms of degrading and sexual abuse from minors reportedly having traumatic experiences of smacking, and torture brought about by poverty or vices coming from the parents themselves. Some children are neglected to live alone without anything. Mostly they are weak and spirit, always alone even with others and longing to be loved, if children does not found love at home they will seek their companions in the outside world with their peers that may result in tragedy and exploited body and mind. They tend to escape from the reality that they are force to take illegal activities such as smoking, drinking drugs and early marital relationship that may even worsen their longing for acceptance inside the family. They rebel against each other that destroyed the family even more. This has been the disadvantages of the nuclear unfortunate family that manifested through destructive pattern and negative character development among family members especially among children who may find it hard to understand their situation, but it is there.
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